Henrietta’s story – how one family is affected by severe disabilityHenry Spink passed all the standard postnatal tests. But although he appeared healthy, he did not respond normally. Henry remained floppy, slept constantly and would not feed. At nine months he was diagnosed as profoundly disabled. In education terms he has PMLD – profound and multiple learning difficulties. He shows all the symptoms of severe brain damage, yet his brain scans are normal. He is a medical mystery with symptoms bluntly diagnosed as ‘global developmental delay’. He cannot walk or talk and has little muscle control. Freddie, Henrietta’s second son, was born with half his diaphragm missing and severe internal damage. He was on life support for the first six months of his life and has had a series of major operations to rebuild his oesophagus, dreadfully scarred from years of constant vomiting. Freddie is more mobile and communicative than his older brother, but has autistic tendencies and developmental delay. Despite being faced with two small children with dauntingly complex difficulties, Henrietta would not accept that the boys would have no bright or normal future. It was the beginning of a ten-year long search for answers and alternative approaches to treatment – and the beginning of the internationally recognised charity The Henry Spink Foundation. Having two profoundly and differently disabled children is unusual – but the experiences of the family are not. Years of broken sleep, medical emergencies and endless domestic drudgery have caused severe emotional and financial strain. The Spinks faced lengthy battles with their local authority for basic help, equipment and education. They also led a ground-breaking legal case in pursuit of agreed statemented provision for the boys. Read more here What's Your Story? Tell us here A fight for the right care and educationThe struggle for basic equipment and help is one many parents will recognise. Lengthy bureaucratic procedures, different departments not working together and means testing often only produce too little too late. In 2003, the Audit Commission’s report Services for Disabled Children eloquently exposed these difficulties through families’ experiences and made numerous recommendations for stronger leadership and co-ordination. Read the report here. A struggle for help at homeThe Spinks’ experiences are typical of the frequently tedious and soul destroying battles parents face. They do at least six loads of laundry every day. Three assessements finally granted 8 hours’ help with washing – annually. Both children need to be lifted and both are taller and weigh more than their mother. Their local Council would not provide a chair lift as Henry, who is virtually helpless, could not operate it himself. Twice a day, both boys and a heavy wheelchair have to be manoeuvred in and out of the house which is reached by a flight of steps. After 10 years of asking, the Council gave the family a ramp – it did not fit and Henrietta could not lift it. When the company who supplied it eventually came to inspect it they agreed it was far too heavy to assemble several times a day and recommended that it should be permanently screwed to the wall. This was prohibited on the grounds that it was so steep it might injure callers such as the postman. An occupational therapist and independent assessor both agreed that the family urgently needed a bath hoist and ceiling host to get Henry in and out of bed; they were amazed the family had managed so long without these. But such equipment is counted by their Council as a home improvement– just like a loft extension or a conservatory – and thus subject to means testing so the Spinks cannot afford to install them. The Spinks continue to battle for a care package. They have gone through lengthy bureaucratic processes and assessments since 2000. In 2004 they have reached a point where independent assessors approved by the High Court have assessed their needs as far greater than their own estimates. If there is no satisfactory response from their Council their next step is to seek a High Court emergency injunction. What's Your Story? Tell us here Disablilty mission statementFighting for special education needs such as reading comprehension and learning disability education, including classification of children disabled and obtaining a local government ombudsman.
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